All Tied Up

By Jenny Harrison

But now we are released from the law, having died to that which held us captive, so that we serve in the new way of the Spirit and not in the old way of the written code.
Romans 7:6 (ESV)

20131113_01When my son was about eight years old, my husband and I, as well as our church, began encouraging him to be involved in mission work in some small way. With that in mind, we decided to take him for a visit to a church in Mexico which we had been supporting at the time. Being the precocious and very busy young man he was, I wondered how he would do with a van full of adults on a six hour trip. However, the elderly members of the church assured me that he would be fine and it would be a wonderful learning experience for our son.

We were a little more than halfway to our final destination and he was doing amazingly well. At this point, I resigned myself to the notion that I might have underestimated my child’s ability to handle a drive that may have become long and tedious considering his normal activity level.

Other than one small incident when he was thrashing and wiggling to find something under one of the van seats, he appeared content to sit, visit with our group, snack, and enjoy the view outside the windows.

About three quarters through the trip someone requested a “pit stop” at the next town. As requested, the driver gladly pulled into the nearest convenience store. My son was sitting in the seat behind me between two sweet sisters in our church. As the van stopped and all began to exit in an orderly fashion it became clear that one of the ladies next to my son could not move at all. Puzzled she began to tug and pull but was clearly stuck. At that point I could not help but notice the big grin on the face of my son. He was swelled up with pride. Upon closer examination we recognized the predicament she was in. Seems her shoes laces had been untied and retied in a different configuration. The inside laces of each shoe had been tied together in a knot. One of the outside shoe laces was tied to a three liter coke bottle and the other tied to the handle of a very overstuffed and heavy purse.

I really did not know if I should be annoyed or proud. As one of his Cub Scout den mothers, I knew we had been working on tying knots for several sessions and my son’s skills were obviously outstanding. Fortunately, the victim took it well and we all had a good laugh. Praise God for a fun loving group of Christians with a great sense of humor.

Many times I have reflected back on this scenario when my son had “tied up” this good Christian friend. And then, when reflecting a little more deeply, I’ve wondered about those times that my own actions, attitudes, or behaviors may have done the same thing by directly or indirectly keeping the ones I love emotionally or spiritually stuck, bound, or trapped.

Lord, I pray forgiveness for the times I have knowingly or unknowingly discouraged a beloved brother or sister in Christ from experiencing Your promise of spiritual freedom by imposing self-made oppressive regulations. My internal list of should and should not’s, ought to, and must’s are burdensome and daunting. Help me Father to be an encourager and spread Your perfect message of freedom in Christ. In Your most precious name I pray. Amen.

Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.
2 Corinthians 3:17 (ESV)

20131113_02Copyright © 2013, Jenny Harrison, all rights reserved, Breath of Life Women’s Ministries. Image taken from Pinterest.  Scripture from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®) Copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers.All rights reserved. ESV Text Edition: 2007.

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